My dad was truly one-of-a-kind. He was humble, kind, hardworking, generous, funny, and had so much love to give. He cared deeply for others and was truly happiest when those around him were happy. His strength and bravery were awe-inspiring, and even through endless challenges, he was still there to lend a hand or an ear, and he never missed an opportunity to deliver a one-liner that was sure to make you smile (or belly laugh).
He was a supportive and loving father who never hesitated to tell me how much he loved me, though he always said I could never understand how far and wide his love stretched. I will carry that love and the image of his sweet smile (and those dimples!) in my heart forever.
He taught me so much, but I think some of the most valuable lessons have come from simply observing him and reflecting on the person that he was - a very special man who was loved by so many. Here are a few that I think he’d love for everyone to remember: sometimes friends can be family; if you love someone, let them know; if you miss someone, pick up the phone; tell the joke - if no one laughs, at least you know you’re funny; take the time to tell the story; eat the food...all the food; no dream is too big; you’re stronger than you think you are.
I love you, Dad. ❤️
– Victoria Gironda
Too many memories to post here and I will post more but one fond memory comes to mind was when Cousin Jimmy came to live with us when I was a kid. I all of a sudden had a big brother to hang out with. It was way cool going cruising with him in the car I believe my dad had bought for him. I think he had just turned 16. He liked to go fast. At first I got nervous but the more I drove with him the more I started to say can we go faster? And looking at the speedometer, sure enough. It was Cousin Jimmy and the pedal to the metal with that wonderful smile he’d carry with him everywhere. He was my new idol. Well The Beatles were first then my Cousin Jimmy.
- Vinny Fazzari
Penny first of all as I looked through the photos I would like to tell you what a beautiful bride you were. We were so very fortunate to meet you and Jim during our Tuesday night dinners. I only wish we would have met you both earlier. We enjoyed the fascinating stories you two shared with us. Take care Penny and hopefully we will see you soon at Tuesday dinner.
– Stephenie Rose Gregory
Jim was a wonderful person. I came to know him thru my job as an escrow officer. He was so easy to work with and he appreciated anything you did for him. I’m especially proud to say that I could call him a friend. I retired 16 years ago but occasionally met Jim out and about and he was always so happy to see you and vice versa. I know he had numerous medical issues over the years but he handled it them with such grace and courage. We will always miss you but we are thankful you are out of pain.
– Mary Lou Johnson
We met Jim and Penny several years ago through John and Sandy Williams. We were all part of a Tuesday night dinner group. Jim had an absolutely great sense of humor. He also had a genuine concern for everyone’s well-being. He was interested in your opinion and what you were thinking. He loved to go to the movies. He loved his popcorn and soda. He was a lot of fun to be around and we will miss him. Penny was such a wonderful caregiver. She was by his side throughout. We love you Penny.
– Alan and Ann Smith
My heart is heavy and soaring all at once. Jim was a great friend, Uncle, and mentor. I loved his quiet humor with that twinkle in his eyes. One of the kindest men I will ever know and love. Glad the he has found the peace he deserved so greatly. He will be greatly missed, Fly high!
– Deborah Rossi
Jim was always so pleasant to talk with and his love of life and his beautiful wife Penny was great. He will be missed.
– Laurie Ames Harman
No Regrets!! I'll get to that later.
Jim and I were not life long friends, I met Jim about 28 years ago, and it evolved into a great friendship immediately. If there were any regrets, it's that I didn't get to know him much sooner, but we did spend a lot of time together sharing events that happened to us long before we became friends, and Jim had some amazing stories to share, from his days growing up, his time in the Marines, his days in the furniture business, and many other great and exciting stories.
Sandy, Penny, Jim and I spent a lot of time together. We liked to just hop in the car and go for a long drive exploring Northern Calif. or the Oregon coast. Our most memorable trip was a ski trip to Big White, in British Columbia. Penny and Jim don't ski, but Big White has a "ski sled" experience for non skiers so they can get out on the slopes with their friends. It's kind of like the rescue sled the ski patrol uses to bring down injured skiers, but instead of lying down you sit upright. The guys that guide the sled were awesome, and were able to take Jim and Penny on any run we wanted to go down.. It was a memory I will never forget!
If we weren't out and about traveling we would just spend time having dinner at each other's houses, or dinning out, or going to the movies together. Speaking of dinner at each other's houses, Sandy and I were always amazed at the fantastic dinners Penny would prepare, and on one occasion we said, "you guys need to open a restaurant!" Jim replied, "we are going to" and he proceeded to tell me his plans of accomplishing his dream of opening a restaurant with his family's Italian recipes. It wasn't long before Gironda's Restaurant was born. I helped Jim with some demolition work on preparing the building, paving the parking lot, and doing some special stamping of the asphalt in front to make it look like bricks complete with the Gironda logo stamped into the pavement at the front door.
I could go on forever with the stories, but now to the "No Regrets." There came a time when Jim's kidney began to fail. I did some research of live kidney donations and came to the conclusion that this was something I really wanted to do for my great friend.
11-11-2011 was a special day for me. This is the day I donated one of my kidneys on Jim's behalf. I wasn't a match for Jim so we opted to go the paired donor route at California Pacific Medical Center. It ultimately wound up being a three way transplant. This is how it went down:
Lets call Jim recipient #1, my kidney was not a match for Jim but was a match for recipient #2
The donor for recipient #2 did not match Jim either, but was a match for recipient #3, and the donor for recipient #3 was a match for Jim. This makes 6 surgeries that must go like clock work. It was quite exciting, and a very rewarding experience.
Jim would always inject humor into any experience, and he was great at it! So first I need to tell you that Jim's actual donor was a woman. Jim said the only problem with having a woman's kidney was that now he has to sit down to pee!
I have "NO REGRETS." It's been an honor to be your friend Jim..
– John Williams
Jim was a wonderful good-hearted person. I always felt welcome and totally at ease around him. I remember sitting the Gironda’s home dining table one morning discussing business when Jim interrupted what he was saying, leaned forward, smiled sweetly at Penny, and told her how beautiful she was. It had nothing to do with me being there. He felt it in his heart and in that moment gave it voice.
– Gerry Bendix
Being able to sit down at a handful of meals at Gironda's, and actually dining with Jim at Fino in San Francisco (doesn't compare to Gironda's!) are certainly my favorite memories of him. It did not take long to see how kind, humble & hardworking of a man he was. Family came first, and I'm sending all my love to Penny, Victoria and the rest of the family.
To steal a lesson Jim taught his daughter, Victoria, 'sometimes friends can be family'. I'm so thankful that Jim (& Penny) were always so welcoming when I visited Redding - literally opening up their home to me and treating me like family, even on my first visit back in 2011. I'll never forget watching 'The Voice' with Jim, Penny & Vic on that visit - when it was a brand new show and concept. We shared plenty of laughs yelling our 'professional critiques' at the TV. Thank you, Jim, for welcoming into the family so earnestly and without hesitation.
– Ramey Dallimonti
When we were very young boys living in a third floor apartment, you had to walk through a gangway to enter. We all knew when Jim was coming home because he was always whistling a happy tune that carried up to our apartment.
– Frank Gironda
“Those we love don’t go away, they will walk beside us everyday.” I will forever hold Jim in my heart. The family quickly became my family. Opening their arms and hearts. I will forever cherish the moments I had learning along his side. The deliveries we made for Gironda’s were always an adventure. He was a mentor, and friend, but most of all treated me like his own daughter. I will forever hold him close to my heart. Hearing him say “Jenny, You are the smartest blonde I’ve ever met.” Thank you Jim for leaving an impression on me, and having a huge impact in my life. I love you, Penny, and Victoria. I will cherish you all as family. Rest peacefully Jimmy G, it’s finally time for you to relax. I know you will be watching over all of us from up above. All my Love,
– Jenny Tuggle
I will always be grateful to Jim for the kindness and love he extended to my son Andy. He hired him to work in the restaurant but ended up taking him into his family. His generosity to Andy will never be forgotten. Thanks, too, to Penny and Victoria for including Andy in so many family get togethers. You are a wonderful family.
– Janet Landles
I have so many wonderful stories to share about Jim, so let me keep it brief and just summarize a few things:
Victoria was my closest friend through middle school and high school, and Jim wasn’t just her father. He was the friendly man who would stop and chat with my parents in Costco for an hour about pursuing his restaurant dream. He was the one who would roll his eyes, and simply smirk, at my bad jokes when he would pick me up after school. He was my first boss, and gave me more credit than I deserved. He was the sarcastic man who would fire back at my sassy teenage “wit”. He was subtle. He was kind.
If there’s anything I know about the Gironda family, it’s that they’re welcoming, creative, motivated, and downright humble humans. Jim will never be forgotten, but cherished in all of our memories, stories, and V and Penny’s Christmas ornaments to come.
If you’ve had the good fortune to have a Gironda in your life, take a moment to be grateful for that presence. It is one that will leave an impression on your life, and a positive one at that.
Cheers to you, Jim. You left a legacy of love and positivity that made this world a better place. All My Love.
– Jamie Zeno
This is Jim in 1965, during his first week at Andrews Air Force Base. He had to drain the oil out of a T-28. He had the bucket under the drain to catch the oil, but when he was finished, he dropped the bucket right on the ground, spilling oil on the flight line and all over himself – his pants, shoes, everything. Don (Hawkins) and I were just sitting there, laughing at him – til the sergeant came by. Because we were laughing so hard at Jim, the sergeant made US clean up the mess!
– Frank Salvato
We were lucky enough to celebrate a butter-filled Crab Christmas with Jim, Penny and Vic in 2019! The night was full of funny and inspiring stories, glasses of mulled wine, lots of dry-witted humor, and of course the largest crab legs I've ever seen! Jim's stories were endless and hilarious and only paused briefly for a quick refill on butter.
One story that stood out and really ended up being very influential in our decision to elope, was that Jim's grandparents secretly got married 6 months before their official wedding date, so every year they got to celebrate a secret private anniversary and a second with their family and friends! This very personal and special story was the encouragement and support we needed in 2020, while planning our original wedding, pivoting to an elopement then pivoting again to a new location. Thank you Jim for a very fun and insightful Christmas dinner and the best wedding advice we have received so far; celebrate your love and commitment to and with each other AND celebrate with friends and family!
– B & Victor
One of our favorite memories with Jimmy - Jack and I were honored to be Best man and Woman at their wedding in Hawaii.
We knew Jimmy since he first came to California. He was like one of my kids. Jack said he was not only a good man but he was the Best man. We are going to miss him.
– Jack and Doris Parelli
Jim was such a kind and giving man. He had a true fathers heart and believed in those who others would pass by. He was a great example of hard work and never complained when not feeling well. This earth has lost a precious person and heaven has gained a champion.
– Wendy Miller
Always glad to be at a Tall Tuesday when Jim and Penny would be able to make it. Good place and time to get caught up on our lives. This was July 30 2019BC. Jim liked to talk about times when he was a "Yute" in "Shecaugo" and how it helped get him where he was going in life.
– Phil and Lynne Pearson
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